There's nothing wrong with wanting Kinky Sex. Kinky Sex refers to any kind of non-traditional erotic expression. It's anywhere from light spanking to hard-core bondage. 

1. Try some light spanking. 

2. Look into bondage. 

3. Try role playing. 

4. Try orgasm denial. 

5. Use a sex toy. 

6. Make a sex tape. 

7. Why not try a threesome?